Becky Phares, PMA®-CPT is a Polestar Pilates Graduate, Practitioner and contributor to the Polestar Life Weekly Blog.  With more than 10 years of teaching Becky teaches at her studio The Body Initiative Pilates Studio in Lafayette, Louisiana.  Find Becky and her Studio on Facebook: The Body Initiative Pilates Studio and Instagram @the_body_initiative_ .

Being Your Own Architect

“Everyone is the architect of his own happiness.”

-Joseph Pilates

If you are a Pilates instructor you have probably heard the quote from Joe in Your Health: “Everyone is the architect of his own happiness.” This to me means that we as humans have the control to make the necessary changes in our lives to create fulfillment.  When teaching class, I find myself referring to my clients as their own personal architects to help inspire the point; take control of your own joy, mental well being, and physical health. Hearing the word architecture in Pilates also makes me think of other characteristics this profession provides. In exercises like long stretch, I ask my clients to imagine that their body is like a house. When you are in the plank position your house is small and needs only a few supportive beams. When you are stretched out long you must add in more support so the roof doesn’t cave in. These cues make me think of one of Polestar’s favorite philosophies: as little as possible, as much as necessary. What better way to validate this connection than to interview an architect. So I sat down with my friend Kally to see if our ideologies mesh. BP: Describe your job in 1 sentence: Kally: I design custom homes from scratch. BP: What type of supportive systems are used in a home that you design? K: They are all wood framed houses so normally wooden beams, columns or structural walls. Sometimes when we want a long span of open space we use steel beams. BP: How do you determine how many beams to put up in your house to keep the roof from caving in? K: So over 20 feet and under normally requires some sort of wooden beam. Over 20 will require a bigger/stronger beam. BP: What would happen if you have to little support? K: Well the structure would fall, obviously. BP: What would happen if you have too much support? K: Too much… nothing would happen to the structure, but it would be a waste of resources. BP: What other things make your job fun but challenging? K: It’s fun because it’s creative and each family I design for is unique. It’s challenging for 2 reasons: 1. When the lots are small but people still want to build a big house on limited space. 2. Trying to accommodate everything they want but sometimes those things conflict with each other physically. For instance, you want a window in the bathroom, but the desired location of the bathroom is not on an exterior wall. So we either have to move the room, or not have windows. BP: Based on this interview I have supported the reasoning for why the quote, “as little as possible, as much as necessary” is important not only in Pilates and architecture but in life in general. Using too much stuff during a job wastes resources; using too little doesn’t create enough support. I have also realized that my job and Kally’s have more similarities than I once imagined. We both have to figure out what is best for our clients through creative and critical thinking. She describes her process of designing a house like putting together a jigsaw puzzle. Kally knows what they want, but it is not always a quick fix. Similarly, when a new client walks into my door, they may have a goal for their body, but I know it will take multiple sessions to make that goal a reality. Becky Phares, PMA®-CPT is a Polestar Pilates Graduate, Practitioner and contributor to the Polestar Life Weekly Blog.  With more than 10 years of teaching Becky teaches at her studio The Body Initiative Pilates Studio in Lafayette, Louisiana.  Find Becky and her Studio on Facebook: The body Initiative Pilates Studio and Instagram @the_body_initiative_ . Link our Blog? Subscribe to the Newsletter Polestar Life Weekly!